Liked and Loved

How do you know when you’re liked and loved by someone?

Here’s how I know:

The person

• protects me, the relationship and themselves from outside interference.

• highly values my perspective and input.

• and I use each other’s needs to grow and heal together and to build a stronger bond.

• and I invest in the above with our lives.

I have found that people who have low standards for what makes them feel liked and/or cared about, don’t have the abilities to cherish me and a relationship with me. As such, it’s not precious and sacred to them. And therefore, not protected.

I’d rather be alone, than to not get and give what I need in a relationship.

How about you?

Do you need to talk with someone who is Pro truth, Pro reality, Realist, Genuine, Sincere? I’d love speak with you.