Do Narcissists Suffer without You?

I don't think the narcissists ever let themselves suffer—which is why they are narcissists in the first place. They care about attention and reactions ONLY. 

The lower their standards, the weaker their ethics, the more able they are to get abundant attention and reactions. 

Performing is how narcissists do life.  They even perform in their own minds.  

If you were in a relationship with a narcissist, you can see that the person was your muse.  You got to see how you actually want to be living. You got to see how you love and what type of relationship you desire and are capable of.

The difficult part is to find someone who is worthy of you and of what you have to give.

A large part of that worth is their ability, need and desire to give to you what you give to them.

What’s required is letting go of the narcissist; and working through the tremendous loneliness and feeling irrelevant in this society due to a large part of the population not interested in the kind of relationship you want.  But struggling through this is better than giving and giving to a hologram.

Do you need help with working through loneliness and irrelevancy? Please contact me. I’d love to help you.