Slippery When Questioned?

“Someone who can’t answer your question without getting angry or defensive is hiding more than the answer.”

- Kris Reece

I’d add to that: “…or without being vague, aloof, avoidant (including stonewalling), dismissive (including spiritual bypassing), tricking (lying, lying by omission), mocking, confused, overwhelmed, forgetful, shape-shifting, projecting, blaming, victim-y or otherwise making it miserable to ask him/her questions.”

Transparency, truth, desire to be known, and desire for loyal connection make it so we don't have to come up with every single question for everything we want to and should know. Basically, all of the relationships traits that these kind of people do not want. Nothing says, “I’m barking up the wrong tree” louder than this.

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