Red Flag: Can’t Relate to You

Throughout my entire life, I tried to get people who took my time and effort to relate to my challenges and perspectives based on my axioms and ethics.

I always got frustrated when they couldn’t relate and didn’t resonate with what I was sharing It was as if they didn’t believe me and/or they had risen above challenges.. And many tried to shame and/or mock me for what I shared with them. I thought I was explaining it incorrectly; I just needed to explain it better. So I tried and tried and tried. To no avail.

It was very obvious to me that these people had trauma, challenges, and struggles. So I was sure that they would relate. Therefore, I kept trying to reach them on the level where we could deeply relate to each other, and as such, to have helpful and relevant discussions and input.

Now I know what was really going on. These people didn’t take much seriously. They had weak boundaries and ethics. They kept their laps open for novelty and stimulations. They were mostly flippant and superficial about relationships and life.

Now I know to make sure the other person lives with ethics, sincerity, and genuineness before I share anything. Very few people reside on that level, unfortunately.

It’s so easy to filter out the wrong people now.

Need someone to give you applicable feedback and input? I’d love speak with you. Pro truth. Pro reality. Realist. Genuine. Sincere.