Red Flag: Compares You to Mainstream

I was in relationships with people who many times tried to shame me for my standards, orientation, expectations, axioms by saying things like, “People at my job don’t do that.” “I could talk to anyone out in the world and they would say you’re wrong.” “My parents never cared about that.” “No one has that kind of relationship you want.”

I now know that if a person uses the mainstream as a frame-of-reference for what is highly-valuable, admirable, and to be emulated, I’m talking to the wrong person.

Do you have bigger fish to fry than to strive to fit into the mainstream superficiality and group think? I’d love speak with you. Pro truth. Pro reality. Realist. Genuine. Sincere.